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September 11 on a Saturday: what a good idea this was

09.11.2010 by David Murray // 1 Comment

I woke up not too badly hungover from Friday night's drink-up with the neighbors.

Scout came downstairs and, flipping through channels—it was rainy—I noticed there was a hell of a lot of 9/11 stuff on TV, and the date dawned on me.

For a few hours, we watched the real-time rebroadcast of the NBC coverage from that insane Tuesday morning nine years ago. I explained to Scout, almost seven, as much as I could, about airplanes and hijacking, both refreshed and befuddled by her questions. "Why did the pilots let those guys steer the plane?" (They had box-cutters?)

Scout lost interest once the towers were down. Cristie came down and fell back asleep in the armchair, and while Manhattan burned (again) and Tom Brokaw said amazingly prescient things, I dozed off on the couch.

Still in my underwear at 2:00 and having ignored several phone calls from friends, I told Scout we were going to the Irish bar around the corner to eat brunch and play Golden Tee video golf. Cristie stayed back to make a grocery list for the evening. The Mexican cook, Marta, kissed Scout on the forehead and asked her, "Don't you want brother, or sister?" Scout nodded, yes; Marta looked at me significantly; I shrugged.

While picking up the grocery list—I was making a meatloaf log with mashed potatoes inside and Cristie was making apple pie—I checked my e-mail, and also, while I was at it, Facebook. Michael Gerson, who I have friended because he used to be chief speechwriter at the White House, had posted the following:

"The world has turned over many times since 9/11. Memories fade. But I witnessed something I won't forget.  I saw a good man find greatness within him. I saw a president comfort a shaken nation, then embody its resolution.  Following 9/11, George W. Bush was America — all of its sympathy, its decency, its toughness.  I feel privileged to have shared the duties of those terrible, vivid, shining days with him."

Gerson did pen a good speech that Bush gave to a joint session of congress on Sept. 20; but he can't let 9/11 pass without giving us a chance to remember his contribution. His friends took the bait and thanked him for his service. I typed into the comment box, "My God, Michael, you are a smarmy and self-satisfied man," and stared at the words for a whole minute before erasing them. Why spend my perfectly good rancor on Facebook?

The meatloaf was undercooked and the mashed potatoes were runny as shit. But we did have fun listening to Nora Jones while we all cooked and baked, and we watched the marvelous Fabulous Mr. Fox, an hour past Scout's bedtime.

You don't say "happy nine-eleven."

But really, it was. And, whoever deserves credit for it, I am glad we're all still around.

Categories // Uncategorized Tags // 9/11, anniversary, George W. Bush, Michael Gerson

Friday Happy Hour Video: Mayor Daley, as Jack Nicholson

09.10.2010 by David Murray // Leave a Comment

"Scrutiny?" Mayor Richard M. Daley once asked in, rhetorically. "What else do you want? Do you want to take my shorts? Give me a break … Go scrutinize yourself! I get scrootened every day, don’t worry, from each and every one of you. It doesn’t bother me.”

That rant wasn't captured on video. Lucky for us, this lecture to the city council—exemplifying Daley's characteristic uneasy mix of rage, dorky humor, buffoonishness and political certitude—was.

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Your best day working

09.09.2010 by David Murray // 3 Comments

It's an old saw on the golf course: "Your worst day golfing is better than your best day working."

For me that's never been true. My worst days golfing are bad, because I feel like I'm wasting my time, and my best days working are fantastic, because I feel at one with the universe.

There are dreary days at the keyboard, but exhilaration happens every week: a far-out story idea is accepted, an interview turns out better than I thought, a story (finally) goes to bed, the issue comes out, something I write generates an unexpected conversation among strangers.

But how many truly wonderful days have I spent working?

Those, in my experience, happen about once per decade.

It's November 1995, and I'm lying on the sofa in Larry Ragan's office at 3:00 a.m., trying to grab a few hours sleep before the graphic designer comes in to lay out the memorial issue I've been working on in the days since he died. I'm using all the skills my mentor taught me in order to honor him. As I try to sleep through the coffee buzz, I think of the line in a James Taylor song, "No one can tell me that I'm doing wrong today."

On a wintry day in 2002, I'm riding in a rusty GMC Jimmy with a struggling standup comic I'm profiling for the Chicago Tribune's Sunday Magazine. We're headed for a two-night gig at a Holiday Inn in Eau Clair, Wis. I'm inhaling the fumes from his Nicorette gum, asking him how he prepares beef stroganoff on a hot plate, and thinking to myself that my competition is exactly no one, because I'm the only asshole in the world who thinks this is heaven.

In spring of this year, I'm holding my first "speechwriting jam session" at a speechwriters conference in Phoenix. I'm playing great speeches and watching the eyes of the writers in the audience fill, as my own eyes fill, as I remember my dead writer dad, who agreed with all of us that communication and love are the same thing.

What was your best moment at work? Communicate it to us.

Categories // Uncategorized Tags // best day working, communication, happiness, work, writing

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