Yesterday we spent a few hundred words establishing that "authenticity" is not the end-all-be-all in leadership communication.
Today, we contend with a prominent business professor who actually thinks authenticity is bullshit.
"Leaders don’t need to be true to themselves; in fact, being authentic is the opposite of what they should do," writes Stanford's Jeffrey Pfeffer in a currently popular book called Leadership BS. "Each of us plays a number of different roles in our lives, and people behave and think differently in each of those roles, so demanding authenticity doesn’t make sense."
All that namby-pamby talk about how leaders are most convincing when they're speaking from the heart? Which heart? Pfeffer asks.
"One of the most important leadership skills is the ability to put on a show … to act like a leader, to act in a way that inspires confidence and garners support—even if the person doing the performance does not actually feel confident or powerful."
To me, Pfeffer sounds like he's being purposely disingenuous. I'd love to ask him if he thinks the "role" he plays as a husband or a father isn't any kind of true self—or at least a truer self than the "role" he plays with his students or his colleagues or his administrative assistant. Are they utterly separate roles or just different sides of one soul? Surely he doesn't boil down all of his life's behavior as merely pragmatic reactions to random dramas in which he finds himself? I'm pretty sure a person who felt that way would not write books.
Pfeffer's idea isn't merely simplistic, it also old—too old to be called provocative by anyone who has read Shakespeare: "all the world's a stage, and all men and women merely players."
But the endurance of this sociopathic vision also forces us to acknowledge it. It forces us to question, as Pfeffer does, the almost exclusive emphasis on authenticity that the leadership industry (and also the leadership communication industry, of which I must consider myself a part)—has been making too simple-mindedly.
"The leadership industry is so obsessively focused on … what should leaders do and how things ought to be," Pfeffer writes, "that it has largely ignored asking the fundamental question of what actually is true and why."
And this, my friends in and around the leadership communication industry, is where and why we must be careful. Because we want leadership to be closely tied to authenticity. We want it because authenticity is good and we want to be good. We want to be involved in a noble social enterprise, not a mercenary racket.
But if we believe all the time what we want to believe instead of what is, our counsel will be appropriate to the clients we wish we had rather than the ones we have. And those clients will notice. (And maybe they've noticed already.)
To be effective and moral actors, we must do four things simultaneously:
• Believe in a kind of authenticity as a leadership ideal.
• Closely observe and acknowledge the way many leaders actually behave.
• Bring ourselves to admit the extent to which those leaders actually know what they're doing.
• And nevertheless seek other leaders to serve—leaders whose version of authenticity give us the chance to do our best work.
Rod Thorn says
The opposite of an authentic leader is a fake leader. An authentic leader actually leads while a fake leader appears to lead.
An authentic leader says “we have less money, fewer people, and the deck is stacked against us but we do have some things going for us and we’re going to compete like hell and let the cards fall where they may.” Then takes responsibility for the results.
A fake leader says, “we are better, we are absolutely going to win, and no one can stop us.” Then shifts blame to someone else when the results don’t go his/her way, or takes credit for a win s/he didn’t earn.
Do authentic leaders act with confidence they don’t necessarily feel? Sure. But if they admit they’re doing it their followers will run through walls for them.
Fake leaders lie to take us into wars in which we don’t belong and promote economic systems that are built on nothing but smoke.
I’ll take an authentic leader any day.