The thing of it is, I do so much correspondence that I only deal with what comes back. I don’t worry about–and often don’t even notice–when someone doesn’t get back to me. I just deal with those who do (and respond to what they say).
That’s a good way to stay sane.
It’s also a good way not to notice when you’ve really hurt someone’s feelings or earned someone’s contempt.
As we say in Chicago, whaddyagonnado?
Well, per your post from this AM re: east/west communication: when there are shared language codes (cliches if you will) when they’re missing that means something. I think your point here is well taken with your Asian counterparts – in the West, what isn’t said is ignored. Not so there.
I can’t quite put my finger on the meaning either, but there’s something about it that feels true…
The thing of it is, I do so much correspondence that I only deal with what comes back. I don’t worry about–and often don’t even notice–when someone doesn’t get back to me. I just deal with those who do (and respond to what they say).
That’s a good way to stay sane.
It’s also a good way not to notice when you’ve really hurt someone’s feelings or earned someone’s contempt.
As we say in Chicago, whaddyagonnado?
Well, per your post from this AM re: east/west communication: when there are shared language codes (cliches if you will) when they’re missing that means something. I think your point here is well taken with your Asian counterparts – in the West, what isn’t said is ignored. Not so there.
DAMN GOOD POINT, Laura.
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